Each of us will at some point in our lives look upon a loved one and ask the question:"We are willing, Lord, but what can we do?"For it is true that we can seldom help those closest to us. Either we don't know what part of ourselves to give, or, more often than not, the part we have to give is not wanted. And so it is those we live with, and should know, who elude us. But we can still love them. We can love completely, without complete understanding.

-A RIVER RUNS THROUGHT IT